SUCESS VS FEAR what do I mean by that? When starting something new there is always a little of fear. You suddenly have racing thoughts like:
Can I really do this?
What did I get myself involved in?
Am I smart enough to learn something new?
Why do we torture ourselves like this? Obviously our heart wants to do something different otherwise you would not be asking yourselves these questions. Do you feel like you are stuck in your life at this moment?
Fear is a highly debilitating energy and can truly keep us from living our fullest potential.
So what is fear?
Fear is an emotion or feeling that we feel based on the belief that we are in danger.
Some fear is healthy such as the fear that comes from seeing a rattle snake, as this fear will prompt you to not go near it. This is rational fear. This is your survival instincts kicking in.
However, there are other types of fear that simply put, are completely irrational and don’t really serve a purpose.
Some irrational fears include having a fear of ants, authority figures, speaking in public, or flying on an airplane.
None of these fears are rational; they are merely based in some sort of programming, false belief system, or a past traumatic experience. Some fears aren’t as obvious as the fear of snakes or airplanes though.
Some fears are subtle and harder to detect such as the fear of failure, rejection, or loneliness.
These are fears that you have to dig a little deeper to uncover.
However, whether our fears are subtle or obvious, most of them are irrational and we experience them on a REGULAR basis.
So if you have some crazy fears, please don’t be ashamed of yourself and know that we all have them. Some of us are just better than others at hiding it.
How do we overcome fear?
The most helpful thing in overcoming your fears is to become aware of them. Identify them. See them for what they are.
Because many of our fears are subtle, we go through life without ever giving them a second thought, and we let them rule our lives. These unacknowledged fears can cause a lot of emotional damage, so the main point is to become aware of them.
By becoming aware of your fears, you’re bringing them to the light. When they’re in the light, they’re no longer in the dark and they’re not as scary anymore.
What does Success mean to you?
Only you can answer that question. Success can be anything to you.
Maybe you learned a new skill.
Maybe after saving money you were successful in getting that new car, trip etc…
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